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<rss version="0.92"><channel><title>A Kitchen Witches Corner</title><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/</link><description>The rantings, recipes, memoires and randoms of a solitary-practicing Kitchen Witch that probably has no idea what she is doing.</description><language>en-EU</language><docs>http://backend.userland.com/rss092</docs><image><title>A Kitchen Witches Corner</title><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/</link><url>http://data5.blog.de/design/preview/f2/2c4b26e1c3661031f9a93ac02d370b_160x200.jpg</url></image><item><title>A little political rant (poverty edition!)</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;One of the blogs I read, Feministe, had up an &lt;a href="http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2009/02/16/i-just-threw-up-in-my-mouth-a-little-2/#comments"&gt;interesting little article&lt;/a&gt; today.  I probably shouldn't be surprised that people are deriding Henrietta Hughes for daring to ask for assistance, but it still upsets me.  Mainly, because of the bloated and ignorant reek of entitlement that drips from every word.  The people that mock, deride or otherwise stereotype poor and needy people are clearly living on a different planet to the majority of us, and yet seem to think they speak for us all. &lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Poor people, people on benefits, unemployed and/or homeless people are, time and again, portrayed as lazy, stupid, workshy wastrels that have no interest in being gainfully employed, and expect "honest taxpayers" to pay for them to live.  In actual fact, such cases are extremely rare.  I, myself, am in a precarious financial position.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I am not a lazy, shiftless wastrel.  I work full time.  I am educated, intelligent, and have a diversity of skills, both creative and analytical.  I do not have an impressive range of qualifications, however.  I did start studying for a BSc in astrophysics, but had to give up the course because I could not afford to cover the rent.  I had 20 hours a week of lectures and lab, 20 hours a week of coursework and exams, 25 hours a week of employment and a 2 hour outbound, 3 hour inbound daily commute to my studies and work, leaving me approximately 9 hours a day to eat and sleep, and 1 Sunday off per month when I wasn't working or studying.  So, exhausted, sick and unable to cover my basic living expenses, i gave up on my degree and qualifications in order to seek full time, gainful employment.  I am still poor and struggling, now.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;My partner of 6 years was made homeless when he was about 19, and as a result only has a brief work history prior to homelessness.  (He was still on the streets when we met).  He is signed up with a variety of agencies offering short term work, and regularly volunteers, to keep his work history active and show willing to potential employers.  He keeps an eye open for apprenticeships that coud allow him to train and earn, or at least train for free.  He searches for work daily, but still hasn't been able to get a permanent position anywhere.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;We are fortunate that my wages are... whilst very small... above the UK minimum wage and just enough that, with extremely tight budgetting, we can pay rent, cover food costs if we ration and have electricity and hot water for most of a month (electric is on a meter so when we run out of money, towards the end of a month, for it we have a day or 2 of candles!).  I can even afford to have an internet connection at home, so long as I go without several other luxuries.  But I recently had a redundancy scare.  &lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Because I work full time, we have no benefit entitlement.  In order for us to obtain housing or council tax benefits, my partner must be receiving jobseekers allowance.  He has no entitlement to an allowance so long as I remain in full time employment.  My wages and his unemployment means we cannot even afford house or contents insurance, let alone put money away in savings.  I could have started claiming benefits if I lost my job, but not until my redundancy package ran out and it would not be enough for us both to live.  If I had been made redundant, I would have received 2.5 weeks worth of wages as my package- within a month we would have been homeless, unemployed, and hopeless.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I am safe for now, but the company I work for is having problems and there is no guarantee that in another couple of months the same thing won't happen again.  I am looking for more secure work, but unemployment is so high right now that most jobs receive dozens of applicants, so the chances of my finding work elsewhere are extremely low.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I know that I may be made redundant, soon, and if that happens I will be homeless, as will my partner.  Obviously, we would then sell the majority of our posessions, keeping only what was needed, but that money would probably not go far; people selling urgently have to accept low offers, and in the current climate people try to haggle even when getting a cheap deal.  Once homeless, we could receive some basic benefits to keep us from dying on the streets, but not enough to get back into a normal life, and housing for people in those sort of situations has a waiting list of several years.  Even then, once we have a home, work would be scarce and hard to come by.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Of course, there is also the problem that, once on various benefits, I would risk losing a massive chunk of financia assistance if I did subsequently manage to obtain more than a bare minimum number of hours of work.  With a base rate of 20% tax now being paid, I could find that taking a minimum wage, part time job would leave me worse off than if I remain unemployed, as the benefits I receive drop off extremely disproportionately to my situation.  Thus, I would likely become homeless again.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;And, just like that, I find myself trapped in a cycle of poverty and homelessness, with little or no chance of escape.  With extremely good fortune, I may one day be offered a vacancy in a job role like the one I am currently employed in, and may again find myself poor, but earning enough to basically live, unable to put away savings and looking desperately, constantly for an opportunity.  Any opportunity to increase my wages, or find more secure work, or work with a chance of promotion, so that I can finally work my way towards a life where I can put away savings.  Maybe even, if I am fortunate, have enough money spare to put some away into a pension fund, so that I don't spend my final years living off of an even tighter budget, and running the risk of freezing to death every Winter, like so many elderly and poor people do.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I am not seeking sympathy.  My situation is not unusual or special, or especially tragic.  In fact, I suspect that my life is a more average and common one than that of the entitled, priveleged and extremely fortunate people that mock "benefit queens" and other people in need.  I would be interested to see how some of these priveleged people would cope trying to live like I do for, say, 6 months.  Of course, they would never know that slow, crushing and constant pressure, that low gnawing terror that grips every time I check my bank balance, or try to take money out of my account, or need to buy groceries, during the last 10 days prior to payday.  They would never know the slow, heavy resignation of not knowing how to escape, or of seeking daily, and failing to obtain, that prized path out of poverty; that £1k a year wage increase, that new job with advancement prospects, that bar offering work that my partner could do.  How could they, when they would know that all the while they play their little "game" of being poor, they need only go to a bank with their fancy credit card and the whole, terrible trial will be over.  They might, however, have more of an appreciation of just how little many people really live on.  That appreciation of what it is like to live when meat and real toilet paper are considered luxury items.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2009/02/16/a-little-political-rant-poverty-edition-5588972/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2009/02/16/a-little-political-rant-poverty-edition-5588972/</link><pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 22:39:23 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Little Mother Goddess Poppets/Charms</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;So, having recently been dealing with problems regarding a certain old acquaintance with a history of violent behaviour and "praying for me" when he isn't being a crazy bad person, I've been wanting to make some little charms to make me, my loved ones, and my home feel safer.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Drawing inspiration from the Spiral Goddess poppets I've seen, I have been making little stuffed Goddess poppets that call forth the Goddess in her aspect as the Mother.  The complete poppets I've made have some very personal runes and symbols on them, which I won't share here, but I have made a blank, unstuffed poppet to give you an idea.  This was my prototype for the pattern.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://data5.blog.de/media/194/3236194_6d46533e4a_m.jpeg" alt="IMG_3702" hspace="5" vspace="5"&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;The image is sideways, and I apologise.  The circle in her womb would, in a completed poppet, contain a symbol or rune indicating the item/person I want the poppet to act upon.  Of course, where I want her to act upon someone other than myself I would require their consent; for example, I made a poppet like this for my partner yesterday.  On her brow, I would then embroider a rne or symbol denoting her purpose.  Finally, I would stuff her with herbs and items relevant to the intent.  She could then be hung in the house or kept in one' possession as required.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Being an invocation of the Goddess as Mother, this poppet could be used as protective, nurturing, to aid fertility or to promote positive sexual or emotional intimacy, depending on the details added.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Just in case, here's a copy of the pattern!&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;a title="poppetpattern" href="http://www.blog.co.uk/media/photo/poppetpattern/3236199"&gt;&lt;img src="http://data5.blog.de/media/199/3236199_e3c53b2617_m.jpeg" alt="poppetpattern" hspace="5" vspace="5"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Just click on the image to enlarge it, print it at the size you want and use as sewing/embroidery guide.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2009/02/15/little-mother-goddess-poppets-charms-5579253/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2009/02/15/little-mother-goddess-poppets-charms-5579253/</link><pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2009 17:23:15 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Ach!  Sorry!</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;Oh, dear.  I have been gone a long time, haven't I?&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I'm afraid I quite lost the will to keep updating this blog for a while.  I just didn't have anything new that seemed like it was worth saying.  &lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I've decided to take this blog in a new direction, focussing more on my spiritual life, and will now also start using it to post entries from my Grimoires as I develop them.  A new post will appear, soon!
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&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2009/02/14/ach-sorry-5574921/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2009/02/14/ach-sorry-5574921/</link><pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2009 22:03:08 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Sorry...</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;Sorry for the radio silence... I have been whisked away and am busy enjoying THIS PLACE HERE!&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://magickalforest.com "&gt;&lt;img src="http://img210.exs.cx/img210/4508/aprjun24dg.png" alt="" width="300" height="105"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Any Pagans feel like finding somewhere to socialise, please check this place out.  They have cookies!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/11/12/sorry-5020865/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/11/12/sorry-5020865/</link><pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 00:12:55 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Saimhain, Halloween, and what to do!</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;Celebrating Samhain is something of a juggling act for me.  My friends, whilst Christian or agnostic mostly, are great fans of modern Halloween celebration.  Every year until this year, a grand party (fancy dress mandatory) has been held at E's house, with open door policy, lashings of booze and food and all the tacky and cute spooky decorations you could ever want.  I love these parties, and couldn't not go.  I'll never forget the time E decided to put "spooky bloody handprints" up her bathroom wall using jam... and found that the stuff stuck so hard she had to scrape back the wallpaper and repaint over it!&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Sadly, thanks to certain unidentified local snots deciding to use the party as an opportunity to turn up and nick stuff, no such party will be happening this year.  Instead, by friends all want to take the bus to Canterbury (in fancy dress, of course) to visit pubs and generally have a fun night.  I've heard of a possible Halloween &lt;a href="http://www.crawlofthedead.com/"&gt;Crawl of the Dead&lt;/a&gt; this year, which should be fun to watch.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;But as much fun as Halloween is, this night is also Samhain and for me has spiritual significance.  Just as many Christians will engage in the feasting and piles of presents at Christmas, but will still go to church for a round of rousing hymns or at least watch Songs of Praise, I do like to inject a little of the spiritual in with my merry-making.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;In recent years I have been fortunate; Samhain has fallen on a weekday, with my friends taking their parties at the weekend before or after the date, but I've no such luck this year.  Once again, I was unable to take the day off from work, so only have the evening, which will be taken up with pub visiting.  I will, of course, be spending some of my weekend having fun.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;So, what to do?  How can I inject some Samhain into my Halloween?&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I've been looking deeper into my own ways of living as well as exploring the various Pagan paths and find that kitchen, or hedge, witchery most closely describes me, inasmuch as any label or box can hold any person, so I'm not going to be missing out on any grand rituals, and being a solitary witch (or a witch of a coven of 5, including her OH and 3 cats, depending on how you look at it!) I won't be missing out on any coven meetings.  I might do a little non-household Magick, however.  &lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;In the days leading up to Samhain, I will decorate my house with fallen branches and living things, and fortunately the church ground where I live has some old willow and oak trees that drop branches regularly.  The final harvest will be completed; I have some rosehips still ripening on the bushes, and my pepper plants still aren't fully ripe, so these can be brought in and processed.  Practice with my tarot, my runes and my pendulum will, I hope, be time well spent.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;On the day of Samhain, I will light candles for loved ones recently lost, and those lost long ago but not forgotten, and will spend a little time meditating with my pendulum.  To celebrate the God in his aspect as the Horned Man of Winter, my OH will be dressed up as Pan for our night out, complete with hooves and a horned face mask (but no massive genitals; ours will be a PG Pan, at least until we get home!).  I wanted to go as the Goddess, but if I dress as her emerging Crone aspect people will merely mistake me for an unfinished generic witch, so will instead emphasis the Harvest aspect of this particular holiday.  The cornucopia I made for Mabon will be filled with spooky treats to hand out to friendly revellers.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Over the weekend, with more time to spend, I will bake bread in various shapes, produce chutneys and other preserves and I will try my hand at a little astral projection.  I really want to try the doorway ritual, as well.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I would really like more suggestions from fellow solitary Pagans who have been more effective than me at fitting in their spiritual celebrations with their modern day ones.  What will everyone else be getting up to?
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&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/10/10/saimhain-halloween-and-what-to-do-4852673/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/10/10/saimhain-halloween-and-what-to-do-4852673/</link><pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 23:44:06 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>More crazy weight-loss Crap.</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/booster_shots/2008/10/a-new-way-for-t.html"&gt;Interesting.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;The anti-fat police are really getting quite desperate, if they think people will take this crap seriously.  Lets analyse this a teensy bit, shall we?  Firstly, let us ignore the actual test and results and look first at the group that was tested, bit by bit.  9-13 year old "obese" girls already taking part in a weight loss group.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I started puberty at the age of 10, approximately.  Most young girls start puberty at some point between the ages of 9 and 13, and with the onset of puberty comes&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Growth spurts in height&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Accumulation of breast tissue&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Shifting and increasing fat deposits at hips, buttocks, stomach and breasts&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Sweling and growth of the genitals&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;The monthly period cycle, including the regular peaks and troughs every month in weight, hormones, period blood and water retention&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Fluctuations in weight against height as the body settles into its new shape whilst trying to grow really, really fast&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
Immediately, we know to expect a lot of changes in body size and shape.  Since BMI does not calculate accurately in regards to in-scale growth, we can expect fluctuations in BMI.  By this I mean that BMI calculates the weight against the square of the height.  However, as humans exist in 3 dimensions rather than 2, this leaves taller people with comparitively higher BMIs.  Whilst taller people do tend to have thinner body frames proportional to their height than shorter people, it has been found that a factor of between 2.2 and 2.7, as opposed to just squaring, would yield more accurate results, and yet this is not done.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;On this matter alone we can see that certain fluctuations in BMI are to be expected in the 9-13 age-group, and as a result any experiment testing the BMI changes in such children should account for this in both the conclusions and study, and include an additional chunk in their margin of error for any calculations.  This still may not be reliable, however, in smaller test groups, as there really is no set amount of weight, height or BMI that a child is "supposed" to gain during the onset of puberty, especially considering late and early bloomers.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;*&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Having considered the above, let us now take a closer look at the experiment itself.  Any good scientist knows how to be rigorous, and that certain things can be done to increase the potential accuracy of any results.  Some of these are as follows.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;In smaller groups, a single outlier can have a statistically large affect on the overall result, skewing it unfairly.  As a result, larger study groups are best as the results from a single individual will have a smaller overall effect, verging to the point of being negligible, as the potential difference becomes significantly smaller than the calculated margin of error.  It is also best to take a reasonably specific group.  "Apples" being tested for average mass and colour may vary from the massive, pale green cooking apples to tiny, pink-hued ones so popular for childrens lunch boxes.  A test study that contains mostly small, pink apples would be significantly skewed in results if a large cooking apple is included.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;More measurements is always better, excepting the act of measuring itself may affect the results under certain circumstances (Schrodinger's Cat being an obvious example).  If I want to calculate the speed of light, and whether it is significantly affected by travelling through different media (air, vacuum, glass, etc), I would be a very poor scientist indeed to measure once, in each medium, and then publish my results as conclusive.  The equipment may have malfunctioned, or my results may be skewed by the margin of error, or there may have been a fault in one or more of the media tested that affected the result.  The best method is to use a variety of different media, several times, measuring regularly, and then calculate any underlying patterns from there.  This allows one to check for any outside factors and eliminate them from the experiment, or account for them in the results.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;The tests should take place under circumstances that eliminate as many outside factors as possible.  If one is testing the speed of light through media, the sensible precautions to take would be to eliminate all but the one source of light being used (so, switch off all other light sources or block them from the testing area) and to ensure that the light beam is being used, that the light impacts the media as early as possible, to prevent potential impurities int he air from affecting the results, and to ensure that there are no obstructions.  Anything that could affect the results that isn't the thing being measured should be eliminated.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;It is often best to continue an experiement for an extended period of time.  Certain outside factors may be difficult to eliminate, and may be dependent on the passage of time, whether it be of a seasonal nature or otherwise.  Therefore, tests conducted over years with repeated vigorous result-gathering exercises are more accurate and reliable.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Overall then, for the best results one would;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Select a large test group&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Eliminate outside variables or account for them&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Take thorough, repeated and regular measurements&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Continue the study for a significant period of time&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Take similar test subjects.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;*&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;So how do the above matters reflect upon this particular experiment?  We know that the group being studied is prone to sudden and large weight, height, hormone and shape fluctuations.  We know that there is very little we can do to predict when these will begin or how severe they will be.  We know that the goal of the study was to determine whether reading about weight loss or healthy living can result in changes in lifestyle that positively affect BMI.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I would expect this test to consider the following;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;A significant margin of error in all calculations to account for puberty-based bodily fluctuations&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;A significant group size to eliminate outlying variables&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;An upper and lower starting height, weight and BMI for all test subjects to eliminate the chance that an already significantly larger or smaller test subject could affect the results in either direction&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Regular measurements, at least weekly, to ensure that a standard trend in BMI changes over a long period, but also monthly for bodily cycles, is identified for each test subject.  (In that manner, we would only note as significant any BMI changes that lie outside of the cycle already identified, also accounting for the margin of error)&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;A significant study period, to eliminate the possibility that BMI fluctuations at any measurement stage may be effected by seasonal changes, puberty, monthly cycles, growth spurts and other factors not predicted&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Evidence that possible outside factors were eliminated from the results.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
This study failed to meet most of these criteria.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;1; We have been provided no margin of error from which to objectively study the results.  However, considering the factors already stated above, one would expect any announced successful "gain" or "loss" of BMI to be of significant amount.  This study resulted in maximum increases in BMI of 0.5% and maximum decreases in BMI of 0.71%, with an overall loss in BMI of 0.33% in the control group.  This seems extremely small at first glance.  More on this later.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;2; The total group size was 64 children, divided into 3 groups.  Firstly, the groups could not have been of equal size since 64 does not neatly divide by 3.  Secondly, this woulds mean approximately 20 children were in each group.  If a single child in one group experienced more significant gains or losses than the rest, this could have a massive affect on the results.  This is a very small test group.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;3; We have been provided no indication of the requirements for the test group, so cannot determine how similar the test subjects were at the start of the test.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;4; The groups were only weighed twice during the entire study; once at the beginning, and once at the end.  That is disgusting.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;5; The test only took place over a period of 6 months.  Considering the massive bodily changes many of the test subjects may have undergone during this period, this seems a woefully inadequate period.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;6; The group all had 2 things in common.  Firstly, that they were already considere obese and secondly, &lt;em&gt;they were already enrolled in another weight loss programme&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Regarding point 1; we have very unhelpfully not been advised the actual figures as measured.  We don't now what the starting heights, weights and BMI of the test subjects were, so we don't know how much the actual changes represent.  However, we can make a calculation.  I regret that I have been unable to search out any figures for "obese" children in terms of weight and height charts, but &lt;a href="http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhanes/growthcharts/set1clinical/cj41l022.pdf"&gt;this&lt;/a&gt; page has a chart for the averages, which I will use for the purpose of calculating some figures.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Let us take an 11 year old girl, being 56" in height and approximately 81lb in weight.  In other words, 144cm height and 36kg weight.  If this child were to increase their BMI, over a period of 6 months, we can generate the following potential height/weight changes.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;At the extreme ends of the study, discounting the utterly unknown margin of error, the increase in BMI of 0.5% could represent an increase of 0.180kg in weight, or a loss in 0.004metres in height (0.4mm).  In other words, this increase could be the result of a very tiny weight increase or a statistical error in height measurement, depending on the number of decimals to which height was measured (or a child wearing thinner socks the second time around).&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;The decrease in BMI of 0.71% could represent a decrease in 0.255kg in weight, or an increase in 0.005m in height (0.5mm).&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Considering that this study was taking measurements of children going through puberty, I would expect that these actual differences would be wildly smaller than the margin of error and therefore UTTERLY NEGLIGIBLE.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/10/07/more-crazy-weight-loss-crap-4835940/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/10/07/more-crazy-weight-loss-crap-4835940/</link><pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 20:06:15 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>A Pagan Without a Coven - Reflections</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;Well, Mabon (sorry for my previous foolishness calling it Lughnasad; more on that, later) has come and gone.  I managed to complete one large, slightly wonky woven straw cornucopia, and filled it to the brim with more iced cookies and treats than all of my work colleagues, and a few from nearby, could finish.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;My little garden didn't do so well, so I've had very little harvesting to do, although I hope this will change next year, as I'm trying to find out about local allotment spaces for rent.  Instead of harvesting vegetables, I've been studying and expanding my knowledge.  Not so much of ritual and myhtology, but of the practical and everyday side of my faith.  Herbology, medicinal uses for everyday items and household remedies.  Home soap-making, preserving and brewing techniques, and baking.  Straw-crafting, and harvesting from nature.  I've been practicing meditation with my pendulum, and studying my tarot.  I've started working on a set of runestones made from a fallen branch, and have been compiling a personal grimoire of information regarding all of the above.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I came to Paganism in my late teens, having found a brief spell of flirting with atheism utterly alien and unfulfilling, and having lost any will to believe the rote and scripted, sanitised stories offered up by "organised" religion.  The dawning realisation that my heart was in Pagan faiths came to me organically.  It was less of a conversion... and more an act of discovering that things I had always felt were true, little things that felt so right and small personal rituals I had followed since childhood had a name.  &lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;It was as though I had spent my life wandering, lost, in a strange land, unable to speak or understand the local language.  Without any memories to tell me from where I had come, or in which direction my home lay, nor any means to ask for directions.  But with always a lingering feeling that I had a home, somewhere, and with odd habits that could only be remnants of my old life, in the home country I could not remember.  Then, one day, I turned a corner after a period of wandering through wilderness, only to see another traveller, dressed like me, and with the same habits as me.  We nod our heads in recognition, and greet eachother in passing.  Our language is the same!  Over time, my will to search renewed, I find more glimpses of the lost land of my birth.  The odd written text in a language I can recognise, or an encounter with people following a ritual that feels familiar.  I haven't yet found the land I call home, but I know its name now, and call to it.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;The thing about all that waffle above is, because of the manner in which I have come to my faith, I have no coven or group to call my own.  My pat of discovery was a path taken alone, and necessarily took what appears at times a tangential direction from that commonly followed by mainstream Pagans.  I've taught myself most of what I know, although my partner has helped me to find my own path, and I get certain things "wrong" as a result.  For a long time I pronounced Samhain phonetically, and I confuse Mabon and Lughnasad all the time.  The Triple Goddess and Horned God that I bow my head to are as much creations of my own understanding of what a God should be as they are the Nature-based deities of old and new Pagan paths.  I think that Terry Pratchett's idea of a "dark morris" for the dark half of the year to balance the colourful and noisy Summer morris dance is really neat.  I self-identify as a "Granny Weatherwax".&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;For me, what rituals I do engage in are more about the spiritual than the physical.  I own no "101 spells for beginners" books, nor do I have 20 different coloured candles for appropriate spells.  My wand is a cut, sanded and beeswax-polished piece of wood cut from a fallen branch, not a bright confection of crystals and ribbon with intricate engravings.  My pendulum is plan brass, but very well weighted.  I own no cauldron, scrying stone or crystal ball, although I would like to learn to read tea leaves.  My runes, when completed, will be plain, flat pieces of wood with the relevant symbols burnt into one side.  I do no elaborate dances, sing no chants and focus my energies instead on quiet, ritual meditation, visualising everything that I need.  If an athame is required, there are plenty of knives in my kitchen drawer, and a wonderful, blunt flip-knife given to me by my father.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;If I were to ever sit down with a coven member and discuss Paganism, I am sure they would find me very ignorant regarding my faith, and I don't know if I ever really could join a group, now, as my personal relationship with nature is developed so much, now.  This does leave me feeling somewhat nervous to even try and converse with more learned Pagans, sadly.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;But that doesn't really matter.  Paganism today is likely so very different to the Paganism practiced in older times, and it hasn't done us any harm, so it seems to me that the really important parts will remain regardless of the manner in which one practices.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/09/23/a-pagan-without-a-coven-reflections-4770597/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/09/23/a-pagan-without-a-coven-reflections-4770597/</link><pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2008 23:48:31 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Lughnasad is Coming!</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;I'm determined this year to actually find the time to celebrate &lt;em&gt;some &lt;/em&gt;of the festivals this year.  I have a bad habit of forgetting until the last minute, which tends to put a severe crimp on the stuff I get to do.  Sadly, I couldn't get Lughnasad off from work this year, or Samhain, so whilst I can start planning now my activity choices are rather limited.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;With this Lughnasad falling on a Monday, I'm going to spend the weekend before preparing.  My boss has given me permission to make some corn dollies and cornucopias and fill them with treats for the guys, since this can be treated as a non-spiritual, general hrvest festival thing.  There isn't, sadly, anywhere nearby that I can purchase wheat stalks, so I'll be using craft straw in bold, Autumnal colours.  I plan on making some mini shortbread bites, shaped into moons and stars and other shapes with my little mini icing cutters, iced gingerbread butterfly biscuits, and candied peel dipped in chocolate, all wrapped up in tissue paper and then stuffed in the cornucopias.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I'm hoping one of the cheaper craft shops around will have plain masks for painting, so that I can make a set of Holly King and Oak King masks, and also some decorative wreaths and candle-holders made from gathered leaves, nuts and dried berries.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;The roses out by the front of the house are plump with rosehips, so if they are ripe in time I will harvest and candy those as a sweet treat, and with luck the vegetables in the garden will be ready for picking.  Yellow and black courgette, tomatoes, onions, potatoes and several kinds of pepper, so I should be able to have a fun time making preserves a tasty roasted vegetable selection for the Sunday before.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;My recipes for the favours to go in the cornucopias are:&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.recipezaar.com/144348"&gt;Candied Orange/Lemon/Lime slices&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.recipezaar.com/5319"&gt;Candied Peel &lt;/a&gt; (I have a plan regarding the fruit peeling method, so that the prepared peel will fall in pretty spirals)&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.recipezaar.com/3213"&gt;Gingerbread cookies &lt;/a&gt;(shaped into butterflies)&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.recipezaar.com/16203"&gt;Mini Shortbread Bites &lt;/a&gt;(shaped into moons and stars and, perhaps, coated in chocolate)&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;For my neighbours, I plan on making slightly larger cornucopias, with a selection of mini chutney jars, some of the candied peel, slices and rosehips, and with luck some spiced or herbed butter blocks rolled in muslin and tied with decorative raffia, perhaps some freshly baked seed buns.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I'd be interested to know what my fellow Pagans, Wiccans and other harvest celebrators have planned, and how you intend to fit Lughnasad around your working day.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/08/24/lughnasadis-coming-4630561/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/08/24/lughnasadis-coming-4630561/</link><pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 15:21:01 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Communication- a few handy links and some anecdata for the Menz</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;Oh my, &lt;a href="http://www.latimes.com/news/opinion/commentary/la-op-solnit13apr13,0,526991.story"&gt;yes&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;This is something I have to deal with so often, and I the way it is explained here.  But I would also point out that, far from even failing to apologise when men discover that they are trying to lecture me on a subject I already understand, they can actually become quite aggressive and angry if I dare disagree, or assert my own opinion.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;A little personal anecdata for you;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;In the pub with family, my parents strike up a conversation with a random guy who turns out to be a great lover of popular science.  He starts telling me all about hsi pet theory regarding the pyramids and space aliens and the manner in which they were built, and mentions something that breaks the law of physics.  I try to advise him that one aspect of his theory might not actually be physically possible.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;"I really like that idea, but the forces in effect at that sort of velocity would not-"&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;"And what the fuck would &lt;em&gt;you&lt;/em&gt; know about it, any way?"&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;"It's just that what you're suggesting would break the laws of-"&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;"You think you fucking know more than me about this?  How the &lt;em&gt;fuck&lt;/em&gt; do you figure that?"&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;"Well, I did study astrophysics."&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;"Oh."&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;What amazed me in that conversation was just how &lt;em&gt;aggressive&lt;/em&gt; this guy got.  I hadn't done what I was supposed to do.  Women being spoken to, especially about anything involving science or engineering or other "manly" type things are supposed to be quiet.  We are supposed to coo and wow and show awe and respect for the brilliant ideas that the speaking man has.  We aren't supposed to have opinions, or know anything about the subject, and certainly aren't supposed to &lt;em&gt;disagree&lt;/em&gt;.  Somehow, this guy didn't see my response as, say, engaging in debate, but as some sort of threat.  At least, that's the only explanation I can think of for the manner in which he started shouting at me, pointing his finger and swearing.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;And then when I politely informed him that, actually, I was qualified to discuss a physics-related matter with someone on an equal level, and not be a passive vessel for his brain-seed, he just stopped talking to me, turned away, and started talking to someone else.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Fair enough, maybe he didn't want to debate.  Perhaps this guy was so used to speaking about this sort of thing and getting nothing but "wows" that this was all he was interested in.  If that was the case, then there was still no need for that display of aggression.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I know many, many men who are wonderful people, but all too often even the really great guys prefer to talk &lt;em&gt;at &lt;/em&gt;women, rather than with them.  And it is impossible to engage in any sort of reasoned debate, or make any progress in understanding each other, so long as women are expected to shut up and defer to the wisdom of those with testicles.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Observe any group that consists solely of women, and the manner in which they will communicate.  Interruptions yes, but nothing aggressive, and everyone will likely interject wit their own opinions and things to say.  Then observe what happens when a man sits down to join in.  Within a short period, he will be speaking most of the time while the women are silent.  The women don't necesarily shut up automatically, but after they are talked over a few times and their opinions shut out, they tend to just give up.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Also, see &lt;a href="http://web.archive.org/web/20070716111952/http://pandagon.net/2007/04/13/how-to-not-be-an-asshole-a-guide-for-men/"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; for a great way to possibly help avoid this sort of shit.  A really great post by a male feminist that specifies discussing rape and fear with women, but could easily be extended to any instance where men and women are talking about a subject, and the man &lt;em&gt;assumes &lt;/em&gt;he knows more than she does.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/08/21/communication-a-few-handy-links-and-some-anecdata-for-the-menz-4619625/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/08/21/communication-a-few-handy-links-and-some-anecdata-for-the-menz-4619625/</link><pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 20:20:15 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>WLS very, very bad.</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;The lovely and talented Lesley over at Fatshionista, had a very interesting article up about WLS today.  Go over &lt;a href="http://www.fatshionista.com/cms/"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; for the full post, but I just wanted to draw attention to a particular point...&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;br&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;[D]espite the growing popularity of obesity surgery &amp;mdash; and the general perception that it&amp;rsquo;s a shortcut to thinness and good health &amp;mdash; it&amp;rsquo;s no easy path. The American Society for Metabolic &amp; Bariatric Surgery (ASMBS) in Gainesville, Florida, puts gastric-bypass surgery&amp;rsquo;s death rate at &lt;strong&gt;between 1 in 1,000 and 1 in 200&lt;/strong&gt;. In one AHRQ study, 4 in 10 patients developed complications within the first six months, including vomiting, diarrhea, infections, hernias and respiratory failure. Up to 40 percent of gastric-bypass patients can suffer nutritional deficiency, potentially resulting in anemia and osteoporosis; seizures and paralysis have been reported in extreme cases. Some of these malnourished patients experience bizarre neurological problems, as Wells did. [Emphasis added]&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Whoa whoa whoa, hold up there a minute, article! Between 1 in 1,000 and 1 in 200? Does that strike anyone else as being kind of a broad freaking range of potentialities? Is that not a pretty horrifying reminder, in fact, that the exact number of casualties from WLS is &lt;em&gt;totally fucking unknown&lt;/em&gt;? And is it not likewise horrifying to realize that doctors nationwide are proffering WLS willy-nilly as a cure-all solution for their fat patients who suffer from basically any health condition, weight-related or not?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
 &lt;br&gt;Hmmm... well, gosh, who would've thought that intentionally disrupting a fully functional part of the body could cause it to fuck up?
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/08/18/wls-very-very-bad-4605254/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/08/18/wls-very-very-bad-4605254/</link><pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 19:01:07 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Something a little more lighthearted</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.tonioverby.com/home.htm"&gt;OH FUCK&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Not to sound a little mean or anything, but...&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Can someone tell me where I can get good quality eye-bleach to scour out all that I have seen?  I'd submit this to &lt;a href="http://photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com/"&gt;PSD&lt;/a&gt;, but I don't now where they'd start!&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I mean, I could write a whole long piece about the objectification and sexualising of children, and the photoshopping of childhood photos being something that might possibly tell little Suzie she isn't good enough even WITH hours of make-up and hair and careful lighting and posing and training and dieting.  But...&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I'm just mesmerised.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;By those dead, lifeless, creepy little eyes.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/08/17/something-a-little-more-lighthearted-4601960/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/08/17/something-a-little-more-lighthearted-4601960/</link><pubDate>Sun, 17 Aug 2008 23:56:13 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>How can I still show pride in my country...</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;When shit like&lt;a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/forumOtherInsertThread.do;jsessionid=ED148DDF225996A6336C3C31B33A08FF.drtomcat2"&gt;this &lt;/a&gt;is actually being seriously considered by our government?&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;One can't help but wonder how the value of a human life will be determined.  Will one's value be determined based on the contributions one has made under the NI taxes throughout one's lifetime?  Or the contributions one has made throughout a set period, such as the preceeding 10 years?  &lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;If the first option, then the young, the very poor, people who have been homeless or disabled or otherwise unable to work and pay tax, will be hard hit.  The poor will intrinsically be given a lower value than the rich, having paid less tax overall, and will be denied healthcare that the rich enjoy without problems.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;If the latter option, then the elderly and retired, or those who previously worked but have recently hit on hard times, will be the worst affected.  I find it highly unlikely that our "labour" government, so far removed fromt he values upon which the party was founded, will be happy to apply the same upper limit of monetary value to their own lives as to the lives of the general populace, so certainly some inequality will be "justified".&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;In our failing economy, work is harder to come by.  This is especially true for those who have until now had difficulty finding employment.  My OH was homeless for a few years in his late teens, and only escaped his circumstances when he moved in with me.  He has been looking, without success, for permanent employement of any sort for about 3 years now, and thus far we have simply doen the best we could with lots of temp employment through agencies.  That work is rapidly drying up, and we are already feeling the pinch.  Similarly disadvantaged people, and those worse off than ourselves, will be even less able to cope as work becomes ever harder to obtain.  Meaning overall that the poorer will find their "value" to the government and the NHS reduced even further.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Or would a "moral" basis be put into effect?  Will lifestyle be the clincher for such decisions?  Will smokers be denied cancer treatment?  Will those who drink, even in moderation, be allocated fewer funds for kidney or liver diseases?  Will the overweight be denied medical treatment for... everything... under the current trend to demonise fat as the cause of all ills, against &lt;a href="http://junkfoodscience.blogspot.com/"&gt;all medical evidence&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;How many of us would be that surprised to find exemption clauses included for government officials and NICE employees?&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;And if this comes into affect, will I be allowed the choice to stop paying NI contributions, saving the money for private medical insurance?  Somehow, I doubt it.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;The British government are relying too much on the general complacency and apathy that has infected our populace.  So few of us bother to turn out to vote int he elections, and so few of us bother to speak up against injustice, that they fancy themselves accountable to no one.  It is time that we made it very clear to our leaders that the British people will not stand for this sort of nonsense.  &lt;a href="http://www.writetothem.com/"&gt;Contact your MP&lt;/a&gt;, and &lt;a href="http://www.faxyourmp.com/stats.php3"&gt;his/her rivals in office&lt;/a&gt;, pledge your alleigance to the party that pledges to end the slow creep to the right of our government, and make it very clear what your views are, what your opinions are, and that you will vote int he next election, but AGAINST those who have made spin and money-grabbing their career.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;How can we have so much money to pour into a failed business like Northern Rock, and the funds to provide massive, multi-course banquets at government talsk regarding the starving poor in third world countries, but cannot afford to treat our own populace?
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/08/16/how-can-i-still-show-pride-in-my-country-4596166/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/08/16/how-can-i-still-show-pride-in-my-country-4596166/</link><pubDate>Sat, 16 Aug 2008 12:54:47 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>title-4574307</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;Right&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;So.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Could someone who isn't incoherent with rage possibly explain to Sony why &lt;a href="http://www.citycynic.com/im/00272playstation.jpg"&gt;this&lt;/a&gt;  isn't exactly a very sensible marketing strategy?  Ans why the image might be considered just a teensy, tiny bit racist?&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;To be fair, they did pull the ad, and issues an "apology";&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt; We&amp;hellip; recognize that people have a wide variety of perceptions about such imagery and we wish to apologise to those who perceived the advert differently to that intended. In future, we will apply greater sensitivity in our selection of campaign imagery, and will take due account of the increasingly global reach of such local adverts, and their potential impact in other countries.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
 &lt;br&gt;What, I can't help but wonder, was the intended message that Sony had expected people to get from an ad showing an aggresive white model violently grabbing the face of a black model, with lots of overtones of dominance in the poses?&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Anyone?&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;And while I'm at it, does anyone have the contact details for anyone in Sony's marketing department, or their customer relations department?
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/08/11/title-4574307/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/08/11/title-4574307/</link><pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2008 23:24:37 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Obsession</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;It can be difficult, being an FA activist when you work and socialise with a group of women that includes two WW dieters, one yo-yo "low fat and calorie reduction" dieter, one woman with an obsession for discussing the content of other people's meals and several people who are not dieting right now, but who see it as a positive thing, and two thin women who have never "needed" to diet in their lives or had to try it, yet still feel able to speak with authority on the matter.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Today, only five of us, including myself, were able to take lunch together.  M, our low-fat dieter, T and J, our WW dieters, and D; a wonderful woman in her sixties who has more sense than any of us put together and whose company I enjoy more than most.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;During lunch the conversation turned, as it so often does, to dieting.  As usual, I prepared to spend lunch not talking, and mostly not listening, as these conversations have really been getting old of late.  To my surprise, M made a point of telling T and J not to get "too obsessed" with their diets or take it "too far".  I was able to take part in the conversation by warning them about the obsessive nature of my diets over the years, and noticed a look of slightly concerned recognition on their faces.  They didn't agree with me, and wanted to deny it, but they knew the horror stories I was telling personally.  I didn't get to say as much as I would have liked, which is probably a good thing as I tend to blather, and I would rather they hear my side of things in spits and spats than in some awful rant.  T and J, of course, proceeded to reassure us that they were not obsessed, that they certainly aren't going to become the sort of people that count every point and weight htemselves twice a day; the sort of people who think about nothing but food and always want it, and who starve themselves all day in preparation for a night in a restaurant, spending the whole day week prior telling everyone how excited they are to be about to go and eat barbeque ribs, or whatever.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;And then M, who was most vocal and whom they seemed most concerned with convincing, got up to have a smoke.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;And then D and I watched.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;T: ... That salad was yummy.  &lt;br&gt;J:  Yeah, really nice.  It didn't even need cheese or meat or anything.&lt;br&gt;T:  Or bread.  Or dressing, either.&lt;br&gt;J:  Sometimes all you need is some lettuce and onion and peppers and tomato and cucumber just all on its own.&lt;br&gt;T:  Yeah.&lt;br&gt;...&lt;br&gt;T: ... I... kinda fancy something sweet now, though.&lt;br&gt;J:  I'll have something sweet if you do!  &lt;em&gt;(Yay!  An excuse to be a naughty girlie!)&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br&gt;T:  Not sure if I should though...&lt;br&gt;J:  How many points was that salad worth?&lt;br&gt;T:  Oh god, I forgot to check.  Have you got your WW calculator with you?&lt;br&gt;J:  Yeah, of course.&lt;br&gt;T:  So what was it?  Lettuce, onion,&lt;br&gt;J:  Peppers...&lt;br&gt;T: Yeah peppers, tomato and cucumber.&lt;br&gt;J:  Did you have sweetcorn?&lt;br&gt;T:  No I didn't have that.&lt;br&gt;J:  Oh good, me neither.&lt;br&gt;T:  So, lettuce is worth 1 point.  Is that for a whole lettuce or for a serving?&lt;br&gt;J:  How big is a serving of lettuce?&lt;br&gt;T:  Let's say a point for that, then.  Peppers are 2 points per pepper.&lt;br&gt;J:  I'm going to assume I had half a pepper in my salad.  &lt;em&gt;(Note; they had about a tablespoon of peppers each)&lt;br&gt;&lt;/em&gt;T:  Right so, add the onion and tomato, and just in case we got it wrong I'll add another point and that's... 6 points each for the salad.&lt;br&gt;J:  How many have you had so far today?&lt;br&gt;T:  Well I can have 20, I had 4 for breakfast, so I've got 10 left.  Plenty!&lt;br&gt;J:  Great!  Let's get some chocolate!&lt;br&gt;T:  Oh, actually, I don't know what I want for dinner.  Should I leave some points spare?&lt;br&gt;J:  Don't they have those sugar-free, fat-free reconstituted cereal bars?  Those are only a point each.&lt;br&gt;T:  Let's have one of those each, then!&lt;br&gt;J:  If we split one we could save points for a snack later as well.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;And if you were bored out of your skull by halfway through that, you know exactly how I feel.  In case you were wondering, they never did buy their sweet treat.  They spent 10 minutes dithering up by the snack bar, carefully examining the wrappers of all the diet-branded snacks before finally deciding to "be good".&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I was &lt;em&gt;very &lt;/em&gt;good.  Not once did I grab them by the throat and yell JUST STOP!  JUST STOP DITHERING!  YOU'VE EATEN LESS CALORIES THAN THE W.H.O DAILY RECOMMENDATIONS EVERY DAY FOR THE LAST 3 MONTHS!  IF YOU WANT CHOCOLATE EAT IT!  IF YOU DON'T WANT IT, DON'T HAVE IT FOR THE SAKE OF IT AND JUST SHUT THE HELL UP!&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;So, yes.  Not obsessed in the slightest.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;It's also a little unnerving to eat in front of people on WW and other diets.  T and J do this; they watch you.  They stare at your food.  On the plate, then they watc to see how much you load on the fork, and watch you put it in your mouth.  It's creepy.  D had bought herself a little chocolate bar, but wasn't hungry for it after all so just left it, wrapped, on the table in front of her.  And they kept on looking at it.  All the time, and if anyone dares buy a dessert, they go on and on about how "unfair" it is to eat something "nice" in front of them.  It's like the food they eat on WW has become a form of self-flagellation, and now they can't stop dreaming about the day that it stops.  In this case, I think this desire for something sweet stemmed from D's chocolate bar, since they also spoke at length about how "terrible" it is to leave it out like that. and how they are just so weak, if there is any sweet food in the house they just CRAM it all in!  They just can't help themselves!  &lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I can't help but wonder if perhaps they would have more self control around food left in the house if they just ate what they wanted, when they wanted, and did their best to get plenty of nourishing, healthful vegetables and fruit and beneficial oils in there.  Isn't that the whole point of WW in the first place?  Eat what you want and lose wieght?
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/08/07/obsession-4553213/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/08/07/obsession-4553213/</link><pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2008 00:25:28 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>A Little Light Post</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;Currently the heat in my house is reaching ridiculous levels. With all the windows open and as many electric items as possible switched off, it's still in the 30s.  Far too hot for serious blogging, and far too hot for big meals and lonh evenings in the kitchen, so here are my top 5 Summer salads for days when you want something more refreshing.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1.  Strawberry, Spinach and Blue Cheese Salad&lt;br&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;u&gt;Ingredients:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;strawberries, washed, halved and hulled&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Pecans, lightly toasted&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Blue cheese, roughly crumbled&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Fresh, raw baby spinach&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Balsamic vinegar&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Extra virgin olive oil (optional)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
Wash and roughly tear spinach leaves, toss with pecans and strawberries.  Crumble blue cheese over the top, drizzle with balsamic vinegar and olive oil.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2.  Chicken Salad with Raw Veggies&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;u&gt;Ingredients:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;grilled chicken breast or thigh&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Raw baby spinach&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Raw peppers&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Spring onions&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Avocado&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Sweet plum sauce or lemon chutney&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Raw mushrooms&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
Layer roughly torn baby spinach in an oval serving dish.  Thinly slice avocado, and spread as a single layer along the centre of the dish.  Thinly slice peppers, removing pith and seeds, and layer over avocado.  Peel mushrooms, and cut in quarters.  Cut each quarter into thin slivers and sprinkle loosely over salad.  Thinly slice chicken and layer over in the same pattern as the avocado and peppers.  Top with a sprinkling of finely chopped spring onions, and serve with the sweet plum sauce or lemon chutney.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3.  Brown Rice Salad&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;Ingredients:&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;/u&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;cooked brown rice (or wholegrain couscous)&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;spring onions, finely chopped&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;red capsicum pepper, finely chopped&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;chopped, unsalted peanuts&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;pumpkin seeds&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;sunflower seeds&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;dates, chopped&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
Very simple.  Combine ingredients, toss to aerate, and serve.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4.  Black Bean Salad&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;Ingredients:&lt;em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/u&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;black eye beans&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;chickpeas&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;canellini beans&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;kidney beans&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;halloumi cheese&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;dried mint&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;extra virgin olive oil&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
Roughly chop the halloumi and toss with the mixed beans.  Stir in a generous amount of dried mint and drizzle with olive oil.  Serve.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;5.  Warm Chicken and Blue Cheese Salad&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;Ingredients:&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;/u&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Chicken breast or thigh, grilled&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Soft blue cheese, such as dolcelatte&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Walnut halves&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Fresh baby greens&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
Toast walnut halves and set aside.  Roughly tear baby greens and toss with chopped chicken breast, fresh from the grill, and walnut halves.  Crumble blue cheese over the top.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Serve any of the above with fresh, crusty bread.  Yum!
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/07/29/a-little-light-post-4518136/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/07/29/a-little-light-post-4518136/</link><pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2008 23:57:06 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Free rice!</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.freerice.com/"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.freerice.com/banners/160_600VerticalTower.jpg" border="0" alt="Help end world hunger" width="160" height="600"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Go!  It's fun and it's for a good cause.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/07/15/free-rice-4451724/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/07/15/free-rice-4451724/</link><pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 16:15:11 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>It's more than just a fashion trend.</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;&lt;img class="smiley" src="http://www.blog.co.uk/srv/tinymce/jss/plugins/blogdeemotions/smilies/02exclaim.gif" border="0" alt=""&gt;DISCLAIMER!&lt;img class="smiley" src="http://www.blog.co.uk/srv/tinymce/jss/plugins/blogdeemotions/smilies/02exclaim.gif" border="0" alt=""&gt;&lt;br&gt;It is late and I am tired and rambling.  I am going to assume that you are intelligent enough to know what I am NOT saying.  Don't say stupid shit like "oh noes the fat bitches want us to all find therm sexxxy!!!!!!1!!111one!".  This ain't about dictating what is and isn't sexy; we all like what we like, and that is fine.  This is about examining the wider social implications of a large shift in overall preference and perception of beauty.  The rest I am quite sure you can figure out for yourself.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;So!&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Today, the fine and talented ladies over at &lt;a href="http://kateharding.net/"&gt;Shapely Prose&lt;/a&gt; had a post up about feminist writing regarding dieting and diet culture, and as usual they got me thinking.  The ideas I'm about to ramble incoherently about are nothing new, certainly not original, having been covered far more eloquently and in far greater detail, I have noe doubt, by many others.  But today was the first time these ideas really clicked together in my head.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Examine most popular media at the moment, whether it be a children's cartoon, a show, a movie or advert (in fact, especially adverts).  Examine the ways in which men eat, and how it is portrayed, and how women eat, and the portrayal of their habits.  &lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Men, when shown as the sympathetic main character (the one with whom we are supposed to identify, or see in a positive light), will have a big appetite, or at least will be seen to be openly hungry.  They will eat whilst talking, eat fair-sized or large portions, show a preference for high-carb, high-protein or high-fat foods, and will appear enthusiastic, or at least positive, towards the food.  &lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Women, when shown as the sympathetic main character, will eat very little.  Watch the movement of their hands, the fork, their mouths.  There will be plenty of shifting food on a plate, pushing it onto a fork, perhaps taking a small-moderate amount more from a serving bowl, but you will rarely actually see the women put anything in their mouths, unless they are sipping their drink.  The women will show a preference for mostly green, leafy foods and fruits, although you may occassionally see a woman with a small, untouched dessert.  In most cases, the only really active role a woman will show around the food is when she is serving it up, or feeding a child.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Where women are shown eating at the same rate, or greater, then men, notice how it is played up as humour, and how the scene will emphasise the woman's high appetite as a negative thing, or as causing weight gain and social unnacceptability.  Similarly, notice how often the only time men are shown with appetites similar to that of the more positive female roles is either  when openly gay or is at least used as an excuse to question their "manliness".&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Examine adverts aimed towards women for food.  Note that, where the food sells itself on being "healthy" or a diet option, the women will eat in groups, happily, (see every yoghurt advert ever) but when the advert is for chocolate or some other indulgent or "sinful" snack, the woman will eat alone and, as stated over at shapely prose, the food will be shown as a substitute for human affection or sex.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Overall then, we see that popular culture tells men to bulk up, eat well and have a hearty appetite, and tells women to restrict eating, and to eat very little.  Deviations from the "normal" will come at the consequence of being a figure of fun or losing other characteristics in line with the heterosexual "norm".&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Next, note diet culture in general, and the current beauty ideal.  Every women's magazine will have page after page dedicated to the latest diets and weight-loss fads, and "cheats" for curbing hunger cravings, with hunger treated as an abberation.  Celebrities that have previously been seen at BMI-normal sizes will be praised for shrinking down to tiny sizes, and readers will be tempted with the chance to learn the "secrets" to celebrity-level weight loss.  Increasingly, pop culture celebrity females are shrinking, to the point where the women considered to be the sex icons look like &lt;a href="http://thesuperficial.com/2006/12/12/brad-pitt-angelina-jolie-red-carpet-01-thumb.jpg"&gt;this&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://img.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2007/07_02/kmossBIG2107_468x639.jpg"&gt;this&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://i53.photobucket.com/albums/g79/celebslap/kirstendunstinabikini-1.jpg"&gt;this&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.entertainmentwise.com/gallery/JORDAN_SHOCKING1.jpg"&gt;and this.&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;We know that good nutrition, a well-fed and healthy body, will have a higher sex drive.  And dramatic weight loss not only impairs sexual function in terms of stopped periods, but also reduces sex drive.  (Well duh, when you're starving, your body has priorities other than breeding).  When this is considered in line with the fact that the fashion for thin women, and increasingly thin women, started as women begun gaining independence, and we can see where this is leading.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;The male ideal is of a sexual conqueror, going forth and spreading his seed, having a high sex drive and desire to be with women.  The female ideal is of a passive creature, a vessel for the seed and receptacle for the male gaze.  In the past, when women were treated as inferior and passive creatures, and where female virginity and "virtuous" behaviour was assured due to the ownership of men, from the father figure to the future husband, over women, our bodies were expected to be larger.  As women gained more control over their bodies and sexual urges, we were expected to portay a more frail external appearance, to become smaller and less physically threatening.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;And with photoshop being so widely used, we have become so accustomed to seeing images, presented as photographs of real people, that have been edited to remove all and any trace of a real body, that we no longer even know what a real size 10, size 8, size 14, woman "should" look like.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;In a world where women can, theoretically, do everything that men can, and are in theory treated as equals, the idealised sexual image of a woman has become a half-starved, weight-obsessed dieter, a user of plastic surgery, beauty treatments and a wearer of high fashion, continuously concentrating her energy on matching an ever-changing image in order to be an ideal receptacle for what is presumed to be mens' preference.  What energy does she have left to be a sexual conqueror, or strong woman, herself?  None.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Of course, the previous ideal was no better for women, or for men, either.  There are plenty of naturally thin women, just as there are natually fat women and women of all shapes and sizes, and none should feel obligated to change their appearance.  Healthsome living used to be about good nutrition, a balanced diet, and plenty of physical activity.  Now, it is all about the number on the scale.  Men are ill-treated out of this as well.  Skinny guys, guys that prefer veganism, guys that don't act as sexual conquerors are seen as less of a man, and there is great pressure to adhere to the status quo on both sides of the fence.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Of course, all of this is before I even think about daring to pick apart the classist and racist implications of the beauty ideal and "health" (ie, calorie restriction and weight loss) trends.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;FA and HAES aren't just for us fat chicks.  FA is a feminist issue, and affects us all, male and female.  &lt;br&gt; 
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/07/15/it-s-more-than-just-a-fashion-trend-4448917/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/07/15/it-s-more-than-just-a-fashion-trend-4448917/</link><pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 00:15:48 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>I love the PCG Gaming Community.</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;Seriously.  The debate going on over &lt;a href="http://www.rockpapershotgun.com/2008/07/07/damnation-fashion-advice/"&gt;here &lt;/a&gt;is just awesome.  The fact that it is even happening, and that the very small minority of "hurrr lulz tits u must be a fag wot dnt u liek sexy girl" are utterly drowned out by the oft-heated, at times actually civil, debate (with sensible arguments from both sides of the fence) regarding the use of sex and sexualised women in games.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Awesome.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/07/10/i-love-the-pcg-gaming-community-4431994/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/07/10/i-love-the-pcg-gaming-community-4431994/</link><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 23:14:26 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Yaaaar!</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;I be the newest crewmate on the &lt;a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/group/the-black-pearl-crew?join=1&amp;code=a837be52c14984e485ba907551fafa73"&gt;Black Purrrrl! &lt;/a&gt; Got pressganged, didn't I?
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/07/08/yaaaar-4420794/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/07/08/yaaaar-4420794/</link><pubDate>Tue, 08 Jul 2008 17:54:16 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Compliments!  And why they are not always a good thing.</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;Compliments are an odd thing, really.  Theoretically, compliments are lovely and everyone should enjoy getting them.  When a person finds reason to offer a compliment, it is supposed to show that they have noticed something especially positive about you, whether the compliment refers to your artistic ability, writing style, looks, attitude, dress sense, ability to bench-press massive amounts or sexual ability, or whatever.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;However, compliments very often have a way of turning out far less pleasant.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;img class="smiley" src="http://www.blog.co.uk/srv/tinymce/jss/plugins/blogdeemotions/smilies/02exclaim.gif" border="0" alt=""&gt;DISCLAIMER FOR THE DAFTIES!&lt;img class="smiley" src="http://www.blog.co.uk/srv/tinymce/jss/plugins/blogdeemotions/smilies/02exclaim.gif" border="0" alt=""&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;em&gt;I am not in any way saying "durrr compliments are bad and you should never give them and you're a horrible person for doing it burrrr".  Simply that not all people are good at receiving compliments, and that certain kinds of compliments will not necesarily be well received depending on circumstance.  This is something we can all keep in mind.  For example, a goodly number of blogs by WOC that I have read have examined in great detail the racial connotations of complimenting the hair of a WOC, and the qualifiers, disclaimers and overly personal questions/requests that tend to go with such compliments.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;Any way, where was I?  Oh right.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I started thinking more about this after reading the latest Aunt Fattie article over at &lt;a href="http://kateharding.net/2008/07/07/ask-aunt-fattie-what-do-i-say-when-people-compliment-my-weight-loss/#comments"&gt;Shapely Prose&lt;/a&gt;.  So, to start with, I'd like to twitter on endlessly about compliments to fatties such as myself, specifically fatties that practice HAES, or who just don't appreciate diet talk.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Sometimes, when I cut my hair, I will curl it as well, or will add a little colour or something more exciting.  Sometimes, when I get ready in the mornings, I will spend a little time applying some make up.  Sometimes I will want to wear a new dress or clothing item I have just bought, or will feel like wearing heels instead of flats for a change.  Sometimes I feel more confident and walk differently, and sometimes I will be wearing mroe form fitting clothes, weather and hormones permitting.  On days like these, I will look different.  And guaranteed, all the same compliments start to come out.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Have I lost weight?  Have I been on a diet?  I look much slimmer, I've just shrunk so much!  I look really good, really slim and my legs look longer and thinner.  My face has really gotten slimmer, or my hands.  I look good, no really, am I sure I haven't lost just a teensy bit of weight?&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;No, I have not lost weight.  I do not diet, not ever since I learned how much damage it was doing me, and how unhealthy my obsessive ED tendencies were.  I happen to love my body as it is, and really it's incredibly disconcerting to learn that people you speak to every day pay so much attention to the shape and size of my body that they think they can tell if my &lt;em&gt;hands have become slimmer&lt;/em&gt;.  Now, really.  Compliments such as these are not really good compliments for a number of reasons, including, but not limited to:&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Since the compliment misses any actual changes that have taken place, it indicates pretty strongly that, actually, complimenting person doesn't notice anything other than my weight, hence is unable to tell that I have dramatically altered my haircut or other physical characteristic.  Not very flattering, really.&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;The compliment makes it seem as though, regardless of the changes and improvement smade to my life, the size of my gut/thighs/face/arms/whatever is really the only thing that matters, and overrides anything else that may make me beautiful.&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;The compliment implicitly includes the disclaimer that losing weight is good, and the weight I was previously perceived tobe at is therefore bad.  Hence, if no weightloss occurred, the size of my body is bad.&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;Sometimes, I may have gained a little weight, or at least be a little bloated for hormonal reasons, in which case I can't help but wonder how large I am perceived as being generally.&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;It really would be so much nicer to be complimented on something that I ave actually changed or, if the compliment has to be about my body, how about complimenting it without assuming a change of weight?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
Honestly, compliments such as these don't make me feel good; they just make me feel self-conscious.  &lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I know!  Random idea!&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Bunny Teaches Ettiquete:  Lesson One, How to Give a Compliment to a Fat Person&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;Giving a compliment is not as easy as one would at first assume.  Much must be taken into account before one speaks, although of course, oen should always consider one's message before speaking, in any case.  The correct manner in which to give a compliment does change according to circumstance, and the person involved, but there are some useful matters to keep in mind.  This time around, the focus will be on complimenting people you already know.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Perhaps a friend had altered in appearance somewhat, and you consider the alteration beneficial.  Or, perhaps you simply wish to advise a friend that their appearance, whilst always pleasant, has especially caught your eye, today.  Firstly, carefully consider what aspect of this person's appearance, if any, has changed.  If you are not certain, the safe bet is not to assume that the person has lost weight, and certainly not to assume that this is a good thing.  Even a close friend may suffer secretly from an ED, and your comments could reinforce their disordered behaviour.  If actual weight loss has occurred, your friend may have been unwell and simply be covering it well.  Alternatively, they may not have lost weight at all.  If you are not certain, the best policy is honesty.  These compliments will likely be better received than any other, in such a circumstance:&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;"I can't quite put my finger on why, but you look even more fantastic than usual today."&lt;br&gt;"You are, as always, stunning."&lt;br&gt;"What have you been doing?  Whatever it is, it's given you a lovely glow."&lt;br&gt;"You look so confident, today."&lt;br&gt;"You're looking very nice."&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;If you can identify the change, try and say something specific about it.  Mostly, when people alter their appearance, considerable thought will have gone into it and it is well worth taking the extra seconds to consider this.  Avoid framing any compliment in a context of actual or perceived weight loss.  Do not say "that top is really slimming" or "that haircut makes your face look so much slimmer" or "that outfit has just taken pounds off of you" or anything along those lines.  Instead, compliment the choice of colours, or the cute hemline.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I am going to assume that, considering this person a friend, you will have spent some time recently in their company, or at least not so long ago that aspects of their personality may have changed.  For that reason, I will take it as read that, if you know that said friend has been hoping to or trying to lose weight, or tone up, or diet in some form, you will also know whether or not they consider compliments regarding size appropriate.  Even then, it is generally best to compliment a person by saying that they look healthy, or really good, or lovely, rather than saying "you've lost weight" or variations thereof.  If you know a person has been working out, regardless of the motive, it is much better to ask after the progress on said exercise rather than general appearance.  For example:&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;A:  "Hey, didn't you say you've been working out?  How's that going?"&lt;br&gt;B:  "Yeah, it's going well, I managed 75 push-ups and 50 sit-ups yesterday.&lt;br&gt;A:  "That's really good progress!  Well done."&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Or&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;A:  "So how has the exercise been going for you?"&lt;br&gt;B:  "I've been really working on my biceps."&lt;br&gt;A:  "Really?  Give us a flex, then."&lt;br&gt;B:  [flexes arms]&lt;br&gt;A:  "You can really see the difference!  You've got so much more definition around here."  [gestures to muscular arm area]&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Remember that, when giving a compliment, this is not about you.  It is about making the person you compliment feel good about themselves, and making them aware that you have noticed something positive.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/07/08/compliments-and-why-they-are-not-always--4417862/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/07/08/compliments-and-why-they-are-not-always--4417862/</link><pubDate>Tue, 08 Jul 2008 01:09:30 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>title-4386200</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;Wow!&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Sorry about the long lapse, there.  Seriously, such a lot has happened the last couple of months.  I've been insanely busy.  Whilst I have, I promise you, kept up on reading around my interests, actively engaging in them and working on those pictures I promised, I've had very little time or energy to post.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Anyway, trying to get back on track.  I had an interesting little experience the other day that highlighted for me the difference between fat girls like myself and my smaller-framed friends.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Myself and a few of the ladies were together for an evening of home-cooked food, wine, good music and giggles.  Part way through the evening one of my friends, a gorgeous, tall and slinky redhead with serious self-image issues, begins to make once again comments about her appearance.  Let's call her E&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Now, don't get me wrong, we all have body issues these days, with the media and society &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WIH1ZujwMz8&amp;feature=related"&gt;pushing these&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6QSZ4Y55io0&amp;feature=related"&gt;extremely fake&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZ0adXaY_bs&amp;feature=related"&gt;ideals of beauty&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5iwaQ2zi63c&amp;feature=related"&gt;on us&lt;/a&gt;, and I certainly can't blame any woman for feeling bad about her appearance.  However, E is tall, a size 10-12 ordinarily, with DD-E cup breasts which have magically retained their full pert youthfulness, a smattering of lovely freckles, deep red hair, legs that practically reach her armpits and a really cute face.  Her complaint was that she is "getting fat", having gained enough weight to go up to a 12-14 in clothing.  This, when she has just reached her-mid twenties, the time of the great sag and expansion of all humans, male and female.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Of course, being the body-positive bunch that we are, we weren't going to let her dwell on that, so decided to bump her out of her funk by lifting our tops to display much larger and wobblier bellies, and to profess our love for our imperfect bodies.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Unfortunately, the whole thing was derailed by E discovering to her shock and confusion that my friend J and I have &lt;em&gt;stretchmarks&lt;/em&gt;.  She thought that they were something you got from being pregnant, that it was caused by saggy wrinkling of loose skin that had been stretched out.  We had to explain to her that stretch marks are, in fact, scar tissue, and that they occur when the body grows faster than the skin can stretch.  Mine developed when I went through puberty, and the ones on my stomach grow an extra few millimetres every year, assuring that they are always pink and fresh-looking, thanks to the amount that my belly moves when I am active, pulling further on already-weakened skin.  I then pressed the flat of my palm against my breasts, upper arms and thighs and showed her that I actually have them all over, but most are faded except when I tug on the skin more.  She didn't know you could get  stretch marks there, either.  She's never had them.  I advised her that people that weight train can get them as well, when the muscle mass increases too rapidly, and that a friend of mine in college ended up with his entire upper back a mass of pink stripes, and that my OH had a fair-sized mass of them on his upper arms and thighs.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Now, J and I were more than a little surprised to hear this, having considered stretch marks a fact of life since we were 10.  The fact that E didn't even really know what they were came as something of a shock, as well.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;The thing is, E is lovely, but she has never really had to confront the particular privelege she has in being tall, slim and curvaceous, nor think outside of her own bodily experiences, so I don't think she ever really saw her own image issues as being different to those of her fat friends, nor realised just how different our relative experiences are.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Another example is bra shopping.  E is ample in the bust, like me, but there is a whole world of difference between DD and FF, and most of the places she shops for underwear don't offer anyting for women like myself.  &lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Thinking about this made me consider my own privelege.  I am a 16-18, usually 18, and as such straddle the plus-size line in most shops.  I can often choose clothing both from the higher sizes in a shop's "normal" range and the lowest sizes in it's "plus" range.  I can pick and choose where I shop, and can reliably purchase fashionable clothing so long as I am mindful of my shape.  Many fat women don't have this privelege, being relegated to shopping online, or just always going to Evans and Bon Marche, and to whatever range of clothes those shops choose to offer.  I also am still small enough that people will reliably say "you're not really all that fat" or something similar.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;My stretch marks and body wobbliness makes high-impact exercise uncomfortable, even painful, but what of women who are larger still?  What of the restrictions their own bodies put on the range of exercise they can enjoy?&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;And what of my much thinner friends, who get cold during weather that I consider pleasantly warm, and need a cushion to sit on even soft seats?&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;There is a whole world of difference of experience between each of us, and unrealistic beauty ideals and social stigma against being "too thin" or "too fat" affect and harm us all.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Watch those videos I linked to.  And watch all the ones that link from them.  The level to which an image can be altered and look either realistic, or at least no different to those in most magazines, is frightening.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Those magazines like Heat and OK will have a mixture of images of celebrities.  Some will look preened, poised and beautiful and will be praised for their efforts.  Others will have spotlights shone on their "flaws".  But pick up a similar magazine of different name, and those praised people will also seem to have numerous "problems", whilst the imperfect people suddenly glow.  The difference?  Whether the photos were shopped or not, and to what degree.  Nothing more.  What separates you from the celebrities isn't just personal trainers, cosmetic surgery, hours of make-up and having their clothing specially selected.  It's image fakery and enhancement.  Stop worrying about it, and just take care of yourself for you.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Get exercise that you enjoy, because you enjoy it, and do it with friends.  Eat food that you like, and expand your range of foods, eat what you want when you want, and you may find that your cravings ebb and die, as "naughty pleasures" lose the appeal of the forbidden.  Feel great, love yourself, and STOP STRESSING!
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/06/30/title-4386200/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/06/30/title-4386200/</link><pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 21:04:50 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Sorry, I fail at the internets.</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;Wow,&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Sorry for the long gap without posts.  I've been very busy lately, working on those long-ago promised comic book characters with switched gender stereotypes.  So far, my biggest problem is that I simply cannot draw supersized male genitals, albeit contained in clothing, as an equivalent of the outsized and out-of-proportion breasts of most female comic book characters.  The bodies themselves are working fine, and I'm getting pretty good at testicleavage, but I feel ridiculous when I add on a massive crotch bulge.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I'd post some examples, except that my scanner has somewhat died recently, but I promise I'll have it up and running, soon!&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;In the meantime, to keep things active, why not post your own characters with switched gender stereotypes, and send me a link?  I'd love to see what other people have been up to.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/06/01/sorry-i-fail-at-the-internets-4254988/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/06/01/sorry-i-fail-at-the-internets-4254988/</link><pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 16:49:53 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>It's time more of us did this.</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://collegecallgirl.blogspot.com/2007/10/number-is-eight.html"&gt;This&lt;/a&gt; post moved me really quite dramatically.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Reading this, I did want to cry with sympathy for this woman's experiences.  At the same time, I felt so much admiration for her; for her candour and openness in deciding to share her experiences, and her courage at opening up about something so frightening.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Too few of us keep quiet when we are assaulted, and reading this post makes me wish I could have had more courage to speak up when things happened to me.  But I counted myself lucky, because I was never "actually raped".  I was never penetrated against my will, that I could remember, though I had come close on several occassions.  I found myself thinking that this made the things that were done to me "unimportant",  because "nothing really happened".&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Well, now I know better.  Here is my list.  &lt;strong&gt;TRIGGER WARNING, UNPLEASANT STUFF&lt;br&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br&gt;1.  I was around eight or nine years old.  It was a special occassion; one of those events where the entire family and lots of the family friends would all gather together at my grandparents for feasting, games and general merriment.  I was still the only child on our rambling branch of the family tree; my second and third cousins hadn't been able to make it this time, so I was also the only child in the house.  When the family decided they wanted to go to the pub, I asked to stay home as I didn't like the smokiness.  A family friend, a man whose house I had stayed over regularly, sometimes for a week or two in the holidays, offered to sit me whilst everybody else went drinking.  When we were alone, at some point I decided to go and give him a little family kiss.  Instead, when I went to give him a peck he grabbed me and pulled me into a straddling position on his lap, started kissng me and grabbing me, pushing his hands under my clothes.  I remember him pushing me back and down so that he was on top of me and starting to undo my jeans, then we heard the key turn in the front door.  He let me go, and I sat in a corner of the room.  I don't remember why, but at the time I felt guilty about the matter, so &lt;em&gt;I &lt;/em&gt;asked &lt;em&gt;him&lt;/em&gt; not to tell.  Maybe because I kissed him first, so I thought I had "started it".  Looking back, I can remember that when I used to visit him prior to this, sometimes he would get me to cuddle up in bed with him in the mornings, and we'd play tickling games and other things.  It had never seemed odd to me, before.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;2.  When I was around twelve years old, during the Summer holidays, I was walking to a friend's house.  I had just reached the top of my road, and there was a man standing there.  He looked lost, or like he was waiting for someone.  I smiled at him as I walked past.  He started talking to me.  Said he was going to a party, and would I like to come with him?  I said no, and went to walk on, but he had backed me into a corner.  He started touching me, talking all the time about this party, and how I would really enjoy it.  It happened on a busy street, in the middle of a sunny day, with people I knew from school, the shops and other areas walking past, and no one said a thing, or tried to stop him from kissing and grabbing me.  In the end, I agreed to go to the party, but I had to go and finish my errands first.  He let me go, and said he would be waiting for me.  When I eventually had to walk home from my friends' house, I took the route through the back streets.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;3.  I was around fourteen years old, maybe a little older, and was shopping at the local supermarket.  A couple of times, my trolley bumped into an older man's one.  I vaguely recognised him as someone who lived in the village, one of those people that you casually say "good morning" to when passing in the street, so I did again, and thought nothing more of it.  As I was leaving, with my trolley full of groceries, he approached and asked if I would like a lift home.  I said no, thank you, I'm fine to walk.  As soon as he offered me the lift, I knew sometin was up.  My school seemed to be targetted regularly by predators, so most months there would be a letter circulated to parents, warnin of a person or persons of particular description driving a particular vehicle who might "ask your child to ride home with them".  He badgered me fora few moments more, and then splurted "I will pay you £50!".  I said no once more, and by this time a few of the other shoppers had noticed what was going on and were watching him.  This man never touched me, not once, but I walked home shaking the whole way, afraid his car would pull up next to me in a less crowded area.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;4.  My uncle decided to have his wedding at a luxurious holiday resort, and the whole family came along.  I was now sixteen, and past the age of consent in England.  While on the holiday, a number of the waiters flirted with me, mostly harmlessly, and doing so only when my parens were around, mostly I think to see if they could get me to blush, which I did with worrying ease.  So I thought nothing of it when, at the little nigthclub, one of the waiters asked if they could dance with me at the end of their shift.  Oddly, it was just as the club had closed and I was leaving that I was offered a dance.  He grabbed me with a number of his coworkers surrounding us, watching, and pushed me up against a wall to kiss me.  His friends were egging him on as he started stripping off my clothes.  I managed to talk him out of it, saying that my parents, whom he had met, would be coming to collect me shortly and they would worry if I wasn't outside.  He kept asking me to come away with him somewhere more private, and I just pretended I didn't understand what he was trying to ask me, that the language barrier was greater than it really was.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;5.  At a party around a friend's house, when I was around seventeen or eighteen.  Most of us would be leaving for university soon, so we were having a last get together.  A friend of a friend, a gloriously witty and charming young lad from America, who had been staying in England the last few weeks and had gotten to know us all well, was at this party.  It got late, so with the host's parents away for the weekend there was no problem with us all sleeping over and making our way home the next day; safer, we thought, than walking home drunk after dark.  I took one of the sofas in the front room.  When I woke up, the young lad I mentioned was on the sofa with me.  Lying behind me, with his arms around me, and one hand down my trousers.  With his other hand he was trying to get me to touch him.  I struggled, kept on trying tomove my hands away and to wriggle away from him, but I didn't say anything.  I was scared, and embarrassed that I would wake up my friends upstairs and they would think I was just being daft.  At one point his grip slipped, and I fell off the sofa on to the floor.  I went immediately upstairs, and went to sleep on the floor in a room my best friend was in, with her boyfriend and a couple of other people.  Nothing more happened, and I told no one about it the next day.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;6.  At university, it was the birthday of one of the guys I'd met during fresher week.  We didn't share any classes, having taken completely different subjects, but we'd gone out with our social group together many times.  I got too drunk at the pub, although I don't know how as I was drinking something I regularly enjoyed, knew my limits for, and hadn't had many.  I don't remember getting back, or leaving the pub, but I woke up on the floor of my friend's bedroom.  He told me I'd passed out and, as he couldn't find my dorm, he'd helped me back to his and let me have the floor.  In any case, I still felt woozy and figured I was still drunk from the night before; I wasn't quite all there at the time.  It was't until I was back to my own dorm and went to change out of my dress that I realised my underpants were missing.  I don't know what happened.  At the time I rationalised that, if anything did happen, I might have consented.  I might even have just taken them off in a drunken stupor.  Since I couldn't remember, I thought it would be unfair to accuse him of anything, and let the incident go, and bought a morning after pill.  I still don't know if anything actually happened.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;So that is my list.  Even as I write it, I can't help but remind myself that "nothing really happened" during any of these incidents, that many women have experienced far worse than I have, but I try to ignore myself thinking like that.  That sort of thinking is exactly the reason I kept quiet all those times, and I know that, had I not struggled, had I not said no, had my nan not come home early, much worse things &lt;em&gt;would&lt;/em&gt; have happened.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;There are other incidents.  The usual, brief and "minor" encounters that most women have had; an unwelcome grope in a pub, on a bus or train, in the street.  A man trying to walk me into a corner, or lead me towards a secluded area, but never actually getting the chance to touch me.  A drunken friend kissing me in the pub and not getting off of me until a friend saw me gesturing and helped pull me away.  A "compliment" given in the wrong tone of voice, with the wrong body language.  Just stuff, and not worth the detail I've given to the above accounts.  Most women reading this will know exactly the sort of incidents I am talking about, anyway.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;From now on, I will speak up when someone touches me.  I will fight back, and I will refuse to feel embarrassed or ashamed for myself.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/05/03/it-s-time-more-of-us-did-this-4125624/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/05/03/it-s-time-more-of-us-did-this-4125624/</link><pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 11:32:39 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Well, what'dja know?</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;It would seem that the Miss Bimbo game developers really are taking heed of the things being said about them.  This is new:&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/media/photo/bimbosurgery/2473554" title="bimbosurgery"&gt;&lt;img src="http://data5.blog.de/media/554/2473554_8c806b46b1_m.jpeg" alt="bimbosurgery" hspace="5" vspace="5"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;Is that a disclaimer I see?&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;So, to sum up the changes I've seen since I started playing.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Diet pills were taken off of the site and replaced with "medicine pills" which, presumably, will help a sick Bimbo but will not cause weight loss.&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;A greater range of clothing has been introduced, including trousers, more sensible tops and a choice betwene revealing or modest clothing.&lt;/li&gt;
	&lt;li&gt;The game developers are pointing out that real-life surgery is different.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
The changes are good.  Whilst I may have my own personal gripes about the game, I recognise that these are personal preferences.  For example, I do not liek the fact that these dolls are called Bimbos.  Nor do I like that the starting IQ is so very far below average.  From a HAES point of view, the weight loss and gain issues are problematic, but since the rest of society as a whole does't embrace HAES as yet, I'm not going to hold that against the game.  Besides which, there is a goal later in the game to become a plus-size model, with positive descriptors used.  &lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;When I first started looking into this game, there were a large number of clearly quite problematic issues.  The game developers were targetting the game at children, and paying minimal lip-service to parental consent.  However, they weren't taking note of the fact that children, whilst certainly far more intelligent than most people give them credit for, are not adults and the younger players will not necessarily be able to discern intuitively which parts of the game are unrealistic and potentially harmful.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Now, however, a number of small, yet significant, changes have been made.  This still isn't a game I would encourage children to play, just as I would not encourage them to play with Bratz dolls or any other toys that focus on promoting a heavily gendered and stereotyped image of What Girls Are.  But this isn't a game I would feel overly concerned about letting children play with any more, either.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;The only issue right now that I am really concerned with is the skin colour issue.  This is certainly no small issue, but I don't yet have enough information to draw any conclusions, and at the moment every time I try to enter the tanning/scouring room the game logs me out, so I can't test this.  However, I hope that if I am right the game developers will continue to listen as they have thus far, and alter this so that the Bimbos don't all start out whiter than a teenage goth in bad theatrical make-up.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;More on this if I do manage to test this.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/04/16/well-what-dja-know-4053763/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/04/16/well-what-dja-know-4053763/</link><pubDate>Wed, 16 Apr 2008 20:34:24 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>MissBimbo Clothing</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;The selection of clothing available for one's Bimbo has been expanding, recently.  Some new clothing items appear when progressing through different levels, but additionally some new items have been added to the first level.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/media/photo/whitemini/2464534" title="whitemini"&gt;&lt;img src="http://data3.blog.de/media/534/2464534_b6fe4ec511_m.jpeg" alt="whitemini" hspace="5" vspace="5"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/media/photo/sexyblacktop/2464532" title="sexyblacktop"&gt;&lt;img src="http://data3.blog.de/media/532/2464532_b8fcc9855c_m.jpeg" alt="sexyblacktop" hspace="5" vspace="5"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/media/photo/kiwitop/2464522" title="kiwitop"&gt;&lt;img src="http://data3.blog.de/media/522/2464522_75aaa8f1be_m.jpeg" alt="kiwitop" hspace="5" vspace="5"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/media/photo/gothtop/2464520" title="gothtop"&gt;&lt;img src="http://data3.blog.de/media/520/2464520_ad4a63d525_m.jpeg" alt="gothtop" hspace="5" vspace="5"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;When I first joined, the clothing selection was limited, and definitely favoured visible flesh.  And, if you take a look at the olive-covered crop top above, you will note that the grey preview doll has, suddenly, flesh-coloured side-boob.  Some clothing items, such as this top, will have a fleshed out section in the cleavage to ensure that, even if you do put underwear on your Bimbo, it will look like she isn't wearing a bra.  I can see how this would matter with clashing underwear.  However, since the only underwear choices for purchase up as far as level 2 are a sexy pink corset with suspenders, or lacy, impractical bra-and-pantie sets, with no buyable plain underwear, there really is no choice but to wear a clashing bra.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Don't get me wrong, I have no problem with nudity, with revealing clothes, or sexuality.  What I do have a problem with is when dressing in a revealing manner, or dressing in a modest manner, is the only choice.  At first, the choice of trousers was plain jeans or mid-calf leggings.  There were, however, well over a dozen skirts to choose from, all but two of which barely skimmed the top of the thigh.  All of the tops available shower stomach, or cleavage, or both.  There were only 3-4 flat shoes or traines, with the rest being high heeled shoes and boots, and the "coats" were all smaller than the tops, therefore only being wearable alone.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;There are still plenty of revealing items, but the key point is that a girl dressing up her bimbo can nowchoose whether to dress her in revealing clothes or comfortable clothes.  The range of clothing has expanded to include comfortable, practical clothes and cute, but not sexy clothes as well.&lt;br&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/media/photo/violet/2464533" title="violet"&gt;&lt;img src="http://data3.blog.de/media/533/2464533_0134ab6511_m.jpeg" alt="violet" hspace="5" vspace="5"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/media/photo/pinstripe/2464528" title="pinstripe"&gt;&lt;img src="http://data3.blog.de/media/528/2464528_020847fb58_m.jpeg" alt="pinstripe" hspace="5" vspace="5"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/media/photo/longskirt/2464524" title="longskirt"&gt;&lt;img src="http://data3.blog.de/media/524/2464524_e5ceb35014_m.jpeg" alt="longskirt" hspace="5" vspace="5"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/media/photo/denim/2464517" title="denim"&gt;&lt;img src="http://data3.blog.de/media/517/2464517_c097761ce3_m.jpeg" alt="denim" hspace="5" vspace="5"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/media/photo/floofy/2464518" title="floofy"&gt;&lt;img src="http://data3.blog.de/media/518/2464518_9d71fd735e_m.jpeg" alt="floofy" hspace="5" vspace="5"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/media/photo/birthday/2464513" title="birthday"&gt;&lt;img src="http://data3.blog.de/media/513/2464513_96589be91e_m.jpeg" alt="birthday" hspace="5" vspace="5"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Since the clothes can be layered, a Bimbo can wear leggings with a skirt over the top, a short dress over trouser tunic-style, or can just walk around n underwear and high heels.  Accessories exist, and there is now a wider range of flat shoes available.   To indicate this, and how the items come together, I have arranged a selection of outfits for my Bimbo.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/media/photo/mybimbo/2464525" title="mybimbo"&gt;&lt;img src="http://data3.blog.de/media/525/2464525_553b286bbc_m.jpeg" alt="mybimbo" hspace="5" vspace="5" width="180" height="357"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/media/photo/horny/2464521" title="horny"&gt;&lt;img src="http://data3.blog.de/media/521/2464521_41c0b02c9e_m.jpeg" alt="horny" hspace="5" vspace="5" width="165" height="364"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/media/photo/gothicy1/2464519" title="gothicy1"&gt;&lt;img src="http://data3.blog.de/media/519/2464519_fbf20bedb4_m.jpeg" alt="gothicy1" hspace="5" vspace="5" width="173" height="365"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/media/photo/casual2/2464516" title="casual2"&gt;&lt;img src="http://data3.blog.de/media/516/2464516_2315eaa7bf_m.jpeg" alt="casual2" hspace="5" vspace="5" width="166" height="354"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;
The two dressier outfits are complete sets.  There are cheap, 1dollar items called "Kawinou's necklace" or "Kawinou's garter" and "Bettyboune's skirt".  The complete set of each results in some gothic, but slightly over-revealing, outfits.  They also look more than a little uncomfortable and chilly to wear, but that might just be me.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Overall, then, the clothing is improving, albeit the range of revealing items is still larger.  It is still easier and, in some cases, cheaper to dress a Bimbo up like she's about to star in a porn film than like she's on her way to the gym, with some items costing 4-500 dollars, or even 1000 dollars or more, an impossible sum for a beginner unless she wants to go to the bank and exchange real cash for virtual money.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;***&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I am curious, having read&lt;a href="http://www.1up.com/do/my1Up?publicUserId=5555169"&gt; Jgoreham's&lt;/a&gt; reviews to date, about the skin colour-changing thing.  As stated in an earlier post, I was given no choice of skin colour for my Bimbo, although I have seen darker skinned ones on the website.  With the use of a "scouring" bed and a "tanning" bed, and based on Jgoreham's mention of the need to "get paler skin", is that all the skin variation comes down to?  If so, that is more than a little troubling.  If anyone has more experience in this, please let me know.  Otherwise, I'll save up my Bimbo dollars and see what half a dozen consecutive tanning sessions will do.  The idea that skin colour and, consequently, ethnicity, is reduced in game to a cosmetic choice, well... I honestly am not sure how to even start responding to that.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/04/12/missbimbo-clothing-4033572/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/04/12/missbimbo-clothing-4033572/</link><pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2008 12:01:31 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Oops.</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;I just killed my Bimbo- couldn't get enough food in her in time to crawl back from the starvation point, and didn't have enough cash toressurect her, so she has now been reset to her starting stats.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Therefore, I can now conclude that the percentage rating for starving a Bimbo is, in fact, how close she is to death, and that there are clear consequencec for starving your way towards weight loss.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/04/10/oops-4026582/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/04/10/oops-4026582/</link><pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 18:49:50 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>A Little Post on Miss Bimbo</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Dieting and Health; Part 1&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;A bimbo can choose to eat chocolate and steak, with soft drinks to wash it down, or can eat vegetables and drink soy milk and water.  Diet pills have been removed, but there are "medicine pills".  I've yet to see how these will be implemented.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Each day, a Bimbo will become hungry or thirsty by a certain percentage, and a Bimbo that has just been fed and watered will have both stats at 0%.  Since Bimbos have a goal weight, and with weight loss pills removed, it will be interesting to see how far girls will go to keep their Bimbo at that perfect 127lb.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;My Bimbo is currently six days old.  I fed her, once, on the first day to see how it works, and since then she has been given only water, or soy milk when out of stock.  At the time I started this, her hunger was at 0% and her weight was127.204lb.  Yes, that's right, the game measures weight to one thousandth of an lb.  As of today, my Bimbo's hunger is at 66% and her weight is... 127.204lb.  She has not lost one lb of weight after six days without food.  This could mean one of two things.  Perhaps weight loss cannot be acheived in game via starvation, in order to discourage girls from learning that disordered eating is an acceptable technique for weight loss.  Alternatively, it could simply be that with diet pills removed, the game creators haven't yet worked out a solution for a suitable replacement and are suspending wieght changes.  Perhaps, in my wildest dreams, I could imagine that the game creaors have taken note from FA and HAES, and have created Bimbos that, being created close to their own body's preferred size, cannot easily lose or gain weight.  Perhaps the game is trying to teach girls that they should be able to go this long without food.  That, really, is the problem.  The hunger percentages are arbitray; I have no idea what they mean.  Does my Bimbo die when hunger reaches 100%, or is a Bimbop that is less than 100% hungry just, well, not &lt;em&gt;really&lt;/em&gt; hungry?  There are no in-game prompts warnign me, for example, that my Bimbo has gone without food too long.  Perhaps it would be better for hunger to be shown in gradients of "peckish, a little hungry, hungry, very hungry..." and so on?  Or, perhaps, the percentage numbers could change colour from green to red as hunger increases.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Gyms exist in-game, and a Bimbo can, upon purchasing a gym membership, take regular exercise this way.  Gym memberships are, sadly, expensive and this early in-game I cannot afford one.  Pets also exist, and it is possible that taking the pet for a walk, exercising it and playing with it could count towards exercise.  I hope so, since this would lend the message that keeping healthy by getting exercise is fun as well as effective.  More on that once I can afford either a gym card or a cat.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I have heard that Bimbos can die if starved too long, so I presume they can become ill as well.  I intend to feed my Bimbo shortly, as I have no desire to cut the game short by killing off my Bimbo.  Instead, I will now start massively overfeeding her to see whether the affects of this are any different.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;More coming soon.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/04/06/a-little-post-on-miss-bimbo-4003548/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/04/06/a-little-post-on-miss-bimbo-4003548/</link><pubDate>Sun, 06 Apr 2008 16:40:01 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Shocking, much?</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;For any of you that may wonder why I blog about size acceptance, why I don't just go on a diet and lose weight, (my issues with the concept of weight loss being so easy aside), why I'm bothered by it all?&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://junkfoodscience.blogspot.com/2008/04/diversity-outlawed-in-japan.html"&gt;Here&lt;/a&gt; is why.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;And if you think for even one moment that this "doesn't sound that bad" or that it's "for the best", then I would kindly ask you to go EXPLETIVE DELETED.
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/04/02/shocking-much-3987621/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/04/02/shocking-much-3987621/</link><pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 20:34:58 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Miss Bimbo, A Reviw:  Part One</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;A Rambling Introduction.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;When  first heard of Miss Bimbo, most of the information to hand came from second- or third-hand sources, people who had not necessarily played the game themselves but had instead heard about it from another, or read about it in the newspaper, or knew some one whose child said they had played it.  Understandably, then, most of the information I received came in wake of the media interest in the game, and I was worried that news sources, ever mindful of the next big thing to hype up and drag through the dirt for as long as possible, might not be offering a fair judgement of the game.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Additionally, as a feminist, I was concerned at the message that this game would send to young children.  Oh, don't get me wrong.  I am well aware that children are not he naive, bouncy little balls of innocence and sweetness that Anne Geddes would have one believe.  At least, not once they start school and have contact with people outside of their immediate family.  Nor do I believe that this is the only, or even the most, concerning thing that children may be exposed to.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;However, we live in a society where, despite lipservice being paid to notions of equality, there is still a massive division between the sexes.  This division is worsened continuously by the continuous messages we receive, telling us that we must behave in a certain manner in order to be acceptable.  Women's magazines will dedicate pages to lavishly and relentlessly picking out every physical flaw in the bodies of the celebrities we see, and yet by only using heavily airbrushed images except where their "spot the wrinkle" specials are printed.  Men's magazines degrade women with sexist jokes and the insistence on tit and arse specials and offensive humour.  Both teach people that voyeurism, and judging a person's worth based on how artificially perfect they are, is a legitimate act and even that it is within a person's right to do so.  We feel entitled to treat with contempt people that are not conventionally attractive, do not slavishly obey the requiements of being a perfect man or perfect woman, or who are simply different.  Adverts for alcohol, lingerie, sportwear, fragrances and an increasing number of products use not just sex, but hints of violent sex, to sell products.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Children's entertainment often plays into this on a simpler level, and yet this is more troubling since children absorb what they learn at a very young age and, if certain notions are not addressed and debated, sexist ideals can become ingrained.  The Miss Bimbo game, at first glance, certainly plays into this.  Apearance can be deceiving however, so it seemed prudent to take a look for myself and draw my own conclusions.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;A Surface Glance&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;My review of this game will be necessarily affected by one glaring fact.  The website runs like utter, heaving shite.  It looks Java-based, based on the loading graphics that frequently pop up before the inevitable time-out errors.  Pages regularly fail to load and at present I am unable even to access the front page of the website.  I apologise, therefore, that thus far I have not had the opportunity to take an in-depth look at the game features.  For this reason, further chapters in this review will be released later, as I am able to spend more time playing.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;The premise for Miss Bimbo seems somewhat similar toother online childrens' games, such as Neopets, in that you create your own virtual pet, care for them, level them up and explore the world they live in, playing games to earn spending points and, occassionally, spending actual money as well.  This game differs in that, instead of a cute fantasy creature, your "pet" appears to be a teenage girl with the proportions of a doll.  &lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Registering for the game is worryingly easy.  The game website pays lipservice to parental guidance.  You are required to enter an email for yourself, and one for your parents.  However, any fool knows how easy it would be to simply use two personal email addresses.  Additionally, whilst the game states that notification will be sent to the parental email address, children can play instantly, being limited only to not using the chat and forum areas.  Additionally, the verification code arrived at the email address I gave as my personal one, not the parental one.  Regsitration is also very short and simple.  Please see the screencap below.  That short form is all that I needed to fill in before playing.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://data3.blog.de/media/324/2445324_f434cce948_m.jpeg" alt="missbimboregistrate" hspace="5" vspace="5"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;em&gt;Please note that I did not choose that name, for my final username.  I have more taste than that!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;The doll herself was plain and naked when I received her.  Admittedly, however, the game was not running especially well and I note that she initially had no hair either, although this appeared later, so it is reasonable to expect that some plain clothing or underwear would have been present had the game server not been acting up.  The legs, like those of Barbie and many comic book heroines, are unnaturaly long.  The torso is extremely small in relation to the rest of the body, and very slim as well.  Arms are pencil-thin and hands and feet are small and pointed.  The natural pose for the doll is extremely girly and passive, but with a "sassy" modern twist.  The hips and head are cocked, the doll is standing with her body not facing you directly, but turned very slightly to the side.  One arm hangs limly down, whilst another hangs lightly on a hip.  I was offered no options to change the skin colour, body size or pose of my bimbo, and thus I am unable at the first stage to inject any personality of my own into her.  Customisation is possible, however, through the use of clothing, hair and makeup, and I have seen other skin colours on the dolls.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.blog.co.uk/media/photo/mybimbonekkid/2445326" title="mybimbonekkid"&gt;&lt;img src="http://data3.blog.de/media/326/2445326_0dd7510c47_m.jpeg" alt="mybimbonekkid" hspace="5" vspace="5"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Bimbos come with certain stats and features, including an IQ, a saving of spendable points and attitude points.  My starter IQ is 70, which is in fact considered sub-normal.  The average human IQ is approximately 100, with 135, I think, being the starting point for a certified genius.  Bimbos also have a starting weight, which is also their target weight.  Bimbos are expected to try to remain at approximately 135 lb.  There is also an "ideal height", although how a bimbo is expected to keep to this I do not know. The ideal weight and neight for my Bimbo puts her slap bang in the middle fo the "normal" BMI range.  My own personal issues with that measuring scale aside, I admit I had expected the creators to set the standard at borderline underweight.  My only issue is that the body shown in these images does not, in any way, correlate with a height of 5 foor 6 and a weight of 135lb, making this just another image adding to the many that resultin people these days having skewed ideas of what "underweight" and "overweight" means.  Then again, the image is completely unrealistic in any case, so I'm not sure whether this could be considered relevant.  I leave you to make your own decision on that one.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;A Bimbo also has certain goals to meet, which allow it to move up the ranks.  These include increasing the IQ, getting a new hairstyle, getting a job, losing and gaining weight.  One goal involes gaining weight to become a curvy, plus-size fashion model.  The target weight, however, is onyl 154lb, putting my Bimbo still within the "normal" category, albeit a mere 1lb away from "overweight".  Not plus size at all.  As a result, I'm not sure whether this is a good thing or not.  In the first instance, the language used to describe being a plus size model in this goal is very positive, and sends the message that larger women are still beautiful,  However, by setting the goal so low, the game also states that "normal" girls are, in fact, plus sized.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;The ability to gain IQ points is a positive plus, and in fact obtaining a high IQ is one of the goals of the game.  This can be done by sending your Bimbo to the library, or by playing sudoku and puzzle games.  Sadly, IQ point rewards are tiny; as little as half a point and for some games the maximum is only 1 or 2 points.  Contrast this to the scratchcard game, which gives away 30 or 40 spendable points a day, and activities like going to the hairdresser that typically give away 30 points, and this sends the message that learning is hard.  It's much easier to get ahead by being pretty than by being smart, and rewards for vanity arrive much more quickly than those for intellectualism.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Keeping the body at the goal weight involves monitoring of food and exercise.  A Bimbo can gain weight by eating lots of steak and chocolate, or lose it by eating vegetables and drinking soya milk and water.  A Bimbo can also lose weight, however, by starving herself, and at the moment I do not know what negative effects this has.  Diet pills were an additonal weight loss option, but these have been removed now.  I don't yet know how easy weight loss for the Bimbo is using only healthy eating and exercise, so I can't say how tempting it would be to simply starve my Bimbo should Ineed to reduce her weight.  More on that, later.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;Overall, so far the game still seems troubling to me.  There are positive aspects, but these are added in such a way as to seem more about paying lipservice to expected criticism rather than a real effort towards such things.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;***&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I'm afraid that is all for today, since I cannot access most of the webste on some nights, and none o the website on others.  More to come!
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;small&gt; &lt;a href="http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/04/01/miss-bimbo-a-reviw-part-one-3982815/#comments"&gt;Comments&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/small&gt; &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://brokenporcelaindoll.blog.co.uk/2008/04/01/miss-bimbo-a-reviw-part-one-3982815/</link><pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 21:02:34 +0200</pubDate></item><item><title>Some News Regarding Bimbos</title><description>	&lt;p&gt;Well, that was quick.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I logged into my new little MissBimbo account today to start my review, and there is a response up on the frontpage regarding media criticism and their action in response.  Please go check it out &lt;a href="http://www.missbimbo.com"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.  Also, you'll be pleased to hear that diet pills have been removed from the game.  Their response seems measured and fair to me.  I am holding out on judging whether or not the plastic surgery is an issue, for the time being.  For all I know, the game may include negative connotations of such surgery, just as it includes negative connotations for overeating.&lt;/p&gt;
	&lt;p&gt;I still intend to complete my review, of course.  And I will certainly take into account this quick response from the creators when drawing my conclusions.
&lt;/p&gt;
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